i was recently told by a close friend that if she didn't know me (well, only knew me through this blog) that she would feel like my life was perfect and that i didn't have normal problems, struggles ect…
i've thought about this a lot lately. it's been sort of a haunting thought because i really want to show my 'human side' on this blog. i mean, i prefer to stay on the positive side. i don't really like negative people.. it just gets old, but there's a balance somewhere… right? i think that years and years of 'secret projects' (i keep a LOT of business secrets all the time, i'm so used to it now…. it's weird) and also seeing other bloggers share 'too much' information at times have made me a little shy about sharing personal things. my life isn't perfect. i just don't like to say negative things. it saves me from having to explain myself to people who misunderstand and it keeps things light (my blog's main focus is visual inspiration).
that said, i'm here now writing a post about my human side. i'm truly thankful and affectionate (you know, in my heart…) about my blog readers and i don't want to be thought of as some sort of 'super human lady'. i'm just like you…. we'd probably be best pals if we were neighbors because i really really like creative people.
so, some 'real stuff' that i wouldn't normally share…
well, i've felt a little out of place since my local shop closed last month. i'm basically starting from scratch and developing a whole new store in a new location (same name, same concept… but completely restyled). it's a daunting task. if you've ever opened a store, you know. if you haven't… let me tell you, it feels like a hundred hours for every hour you get paid for. there are tons of details and… i'm a huge perfectionist about creative things. naturally, i want my shop to be the cutest shop i've ever seen in my life. i'd say i'm about one tenth of the way ready to open in a new location…. so there's a lot to do! also, i wanted to open the new shop with a cupcake/sweets shop inside… sorta a tearoom & boutique thing. i found out a week or two ago that another cupcake shop is opening in the exact area where i wanted to open… so that changed our plans a little bit (well, we're definitely not doing cupcakes). then, there's another huge project that i've been working on for over a year… it's almost finished now. it feels pretty crazy to have worked on something for over a year and never have mentioned it on this blog even once! you probably think that sounds crazy, but you'll understand when you see it. it's the most exciting project i've ever worked on or dreamed of working on. in other, non business related news, i finally let my grandma see my tattoos. i didn't make a big deal out of it. i just showed up one day to lunch with all my tattoos showing…. she didn't say anything, but it felt really good to jump over that major hurdle (yes, i'm scared of disappointing my grandma… like really scared). i love my new home and i'm really enjoying decorating here, but i sorta hate not having a home studio. i thought it would be healthy for me to escape my work sometimes, but as it turns out the thing i need to have breaks from at night is my never-empty e-mail box… not my art supplies. 🙂 i'll either get used to it or i'll make some sort of portable studio system soon. we'll see!
i hope that this little post has been a fun read for someone out there. i guess i feel a little better now. loves, elsie
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thanks for sharing your human side, but you are so true, it’s totally ok to keep it positive, you don’t need to share all your thoughts, troubles and negative feelings. i’m here for your creativity and i can simply imagine even your life isn’t perfect. we all have our daily strugles and stuff to go by. hugs from across the ocean!
Thank you for being so transparent for a moment, I know it probably took a lot of bravery for doing so. We’re all in this life together Miss Elsie. 🙂
Thank you for sharing! Your life does seem amazingly perfect from your blog, but I know what a HUGE task it is to open and run a store. The biggest inspiration to me is how positive you continue to remain and how motivated you keep yourself.
xo♥/Lex
no cupcakes? 🙁 that’s alright, I’m sure whatever you come up with will be amazing (as always)… I know your blog/positive “can do” attitude has helped me 🙂 your hard work will pay off! and you touch a lot of peoples’ (? not sure where that apostrophe goes, oops) lives.
thank you so much for being open about your personal life. i know how hard it is to blog about personal things, because it is your life, your thoughts and not everyone needs to know EVERYTHING about it.
i always think of you as a very real, open, honest and true person, even when you don’t write about your personal life. i think you show a lot of your personality and ‘human side’ through your blogposts. you’re a true inspiration to me, elsie. and when i say that, i mean i admire you for what you do, for who you are and that doesn’t mean you need to be perfect or a super human lady. xoxo.
It’s nice to hear a bit more about your feelings, but if you don’t want to share personal things on your blog, don’t feel like you have to. Although it would be nice to know more about your struggles (so that all of us who wish we were you would know it takes a TON of hard work) it is not something that is needed to keep us reading.
You have a huge following and I know it must be difficult to have people react to posts in a totally different way than how you had planned.
With the personal posts or without them, you’ll still have a huge fan base, me included.
It’s true, whenever I come here, I think: wow, she must be the happiest girl in the world 🙂 I wouldn’t be able to not write about the struggles of life, it must be difficult at times to always keep it light and positive. But you can’t ignore the effect it has; I think everyone who comes here, always gets a lot of energy from you and all your pretty things, I love it!! Keep up the good work!
Its so cute that you wrote this Elsie, Its true when things are going a bit wrong or I feel grumpy I do sometimes wonder think wow your life is so perfect! But of course i’m not silly everyone has there worries and down days but its your positivity that is so beautiful so dont feel like you shouldnt be that way! Loves Tigerlilly xoxo http://www.tigerlillyquinn.blogspot.com
this is the first time I ever comment on a blog (and the first time I ever felt that I wanted to). Thank you for this honest post (and all your other posts as well). I was one of those who just started to think you where super-natural and wondering about how EVERYTHING in your life could be “super cute” and happen at once? I really love your blog- even more now! your such an inspiring person.
Thank you Elsie!
good that you wrote this post, i have to admit that i also thought that you have a perfect life. but now i think you have just a little less perfect but still perfect 🙂 but like i said posts like this are really good if you care about your serious readers 🙂
i don’t have a cupcake store near me.. even in my town!!
I will say that it’s nice to see a little teeny peek into the normal from you Elise. One thing I’ve always wondered is with EVERYTHING you do how do you pdate your blog so much!?! Honestly, I wonder. I work fulltime and honestly I find it hard some nights to sit down and write ANYTHING let alone anything interesting… do you iphone it or acutally sit down at your laptop.. do you ake ages thinking what to say..? I’m interested… Oh and Thanks 🙂
I think you are lovely Elsie. You share as much as you feel comfortable with.
I like to be positive too. My little boy is Autistic and I share a few stories now and again on my blog. I share but in a positive way so that if anyone other then my grandma and mum read my blog someone out there might feel inspired by it. That hardship or hurdles don’t always have to be negative but supportive.
You and your blog are inspiring and I like the little air of mystery that surrounds it. It’s quite wonderful.
x
I think you’re a wonderful person, Elsie! Thanks for sharing and thanks for reminding us that we’re not the only ones with problems, fears and struggles. I wish I had a neighbor like you. 😉
Keep up the good work, you inspire a lot of people! And well, cupcakes.. They’re overrated. (errr.. right?) 😉
believe it or not, I actually really enjoyed reading this entry.
I love seeing all your new creations and what not, but this entry was a breath of fresh air…its nice to get to meet the woman behind all the pretty paintings!
xo.
Your human side is lovely (like every other side of you!) You seem such a nice person. I only know you through your blog, but I can tell you, you have helped me and inspired me in ways that you’ll never know. I wish we could be neighbors or even friends. Everyone has bad days, but the way you always stay on the positive side, or at least that’s what you’re letting us to know, is AMAZING! Keep up the good work, good luck with your projects and… don’t change who you are.
I love that you shared your human side but double love that you are positive and cute always!! LOL I am a strong believer that positivity gets one thru anything and your store opening will be super awesome due to this! I’m looking forward to hearing more about your big project and store opening…maybe someday I will come visit the store on vacation! *hug*
<3
thnks elsss.
thanks for sharing :] it’s refreshing!
I totally know what you mean! Sometimes your life does seem “perfect”, although I’ve followed your blog long enough to know what a hard worker you are and that it’s not roses all the time. You have a good life but you sure as hell earnt it! I understand your decision not to be too personal or negative on your blog. As a “fan”, I have been dying to know more about you at times. Well, I guess that’s just the way it is when you really like someone; you want to get to know them better. BUT sharing private stuff to a bunch of strangers is always going to be complicated. I don’t have a blog for that reason, I prefer to stay “private” online. So I respect your decision. Sometimes I miss your blog as it was before the opening of the store. Back then you showed more of your daily routines and when you created art in your studio. At that time I was also sitting here on the other side of the atlantic creating art and it was a very positive and happy time in my life and you were a part of all that! Your passion, your drive, your love of art, your work ethic.. If you only knew what an influence you have been in my life ♥ Thanks!
Great post. I think everyone should just be theirselves and not worry about what others think. To me that’s the best type of person to be around, a true, genuine person, no one who’s fake. I love positive people too, every now and again you’ll have a bad day, that’s just life and to be expected. It’s normal.
I know everyone says your life is perfect. I say you’re blessed, you work very hard to get to where you are. You are so talented and you deserve to be happy. I think everyone does in some way or another.
I hope you will just be you. Just being you is enough or it should be for everyone.
Great post, loved it. I hope you get your art corner up soon. We all need a bit of art in our life.
Elsie, I LOVE your positive attitude and you see beauty in everything, that’s one of the many reasons i visit your blog everyday. I never had an illusion that you didn’t have struggles or bad days. I like focusing on positive things too!
My two cents: I think that if you really want to sell cupcakes, you should do it. don’t let others change your plans.
i love that you are always so positive! it cheers me up if i’m feeling grumpy. when things aren’t so awesome there is always someone going through something similar that will have some kind words for you 🙂
i agree that you should just be your awesome self and blog about whatever you feel comfortable with sharing.
Like you, I don’t like bloggers who share ‘too much’ information about their personnal life!!
Elsie, i love your blog because it’ s always a great source of positive inspiration & colorful ideas!!
I love your blog because you are the most creative person i have ever seen!!
I love your blog because it’s my daily dose of sweets and cute things ♥♥
Continue to be yourself, give what you want to give, no more, no less. People will always want to know more, but we all have our secret garden, no?
Hug
Julie♥
We all are bumbling along with each of us surrounding ourselves with our own Beautiful Mess I guess, …aren’t we?
Deep and kind thanks Miss Elsie.
Have you thought of a Bubble Tea shop? Instead of cupcakes?
Much cute
Libby x
elsie, i have followed you since you started in the creative industry years ago with the whole scrapbooking thing…met you at cha a couple of times. i feel like i have been there “with you” through the ups and downs you have faced…i appreciate this post as it keeps things real. you do live a charmed life surrounded by wonderful people and i think that by you giving your enormous following a peek into the personal you will gain even more loyal readers.
you are pretty darn incredible!
xo
Yes, in agreeance with everyone here, I wanted to thank you for this honest post. It inspires me as much as the creative posts, knowing that I’m not the only one with struggles – so many blogs and people I go to for inspiration seem to have a perfect life, and it’s easy to get discouraged comparing my bad days to their picture perfect cute DIY posts. hah! So yeah, this is encouraging to hear. We’re all human. 🙂
Hi elsie, what a lovely post. i never thought you were too ‘perfect’… i understand that this blog is a place for sharing fun and inspiration more than the daily grind. but it’s nice to read about the harder stuff too sometimes because it’s so relatable. thank you 🙂 🙂
Thank you for sharing! It’s nice to know you have your stress and struggles too.
Hi Elsie, that was such a thought-provoking post…
Pretty much the same thing was said to me lately and I’ve been thinking about it a lot too…I don’t use my blog to share absolutely everything that happens in my life/head/heart but rather to serve as a representation of me – always honest but, like you, I prefer to be positive. I don’t post stuff to make others feel inferior or to gloat but to inspire and spread a little happiness out there.
We all have ‘stuff’ to deal with and I appreciate that when reading a blog like yours, there’s a whole lot of other ‘stuff’ that has happened before you’ve gotten to the point of sharing a project or news with us. You obviously work incredibly hard and I love reading about each new venture.
What’s the saying…? “Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a great battle” No-one’s life is perfect, but there’s nothing wrong with being happy and keeping it fun!! xx
Everyone has already said it, but thanks for sharing! I think so many of us who don’t know you personally look at you as some sort of a little icon, or celebrity. (or maybe im weird and the only one) BUT seeing the rawness of the things you experience is just so cool for me. It makes you even more real, beautiful, and inspiring.
Nicely done, Elsie. It is nice to know you are not a super-human and I also thoroughly enjoy the positive, upbeat atmosphere you have created in your e-space. That’s why I keep coming back. Thank you!
I loved your post, Elsie. Not because of what you said, which was very dear..or because we all know the courage it takes to give a piece of ourselves without knowing if it wil be recieved the way we intended to deliver it. I love it because despite you thinking that we don’t see underneath the visual side of you and your site…we know you to be sweet, creative, warm, shy, loveable, funny and all those things that you seem to be despite you putting into words…. you shine thru, sister…everyday. {{hugs}}
Elsie, we all love you. Seriously. I don’t mean to be sappy, but all of your readers adore you. Whatever your next endeavor is, we will totally support you! xoxo.
this post is beautiful 🙂
We love every bit of you, Elsie! 🙂 Big hugs and thanks for sharing this with us… xoxo
Glad to hear that I’m not the only one hiding my tattoos from my Grandma. Keep up the wonderful blog!
i totally understand why you don’t usually post certain things.
personally, i see my blog as a window into my life and thoughts, not an open door. i post peeks of what’s going on or what i’m feeling, but i’m scared of sharing too much, of being missunderstood. and, ultimately, there are things that are either for me alone or for the people close to me.
if you blurt it all out on your blog, it seems that the special part you should save for the ones close to you, gets lost or unprotected or something.
it’s not about seeming to have a “perfect life”. it’s about choosing to inspire people in a positive way, right?
p.s.: i love this blog of yours 🙂
dear Elsie..
(sorry in bahasa Indonesia)
terima kasih sudah bercerita sedikit hal tentang hal pribadi. saya sangat menghargainya.
saya setuju bahwa kita sebisa mungkin harus positif, tetapi sesekali mengungkapkan perasaan (kesal/sedih/etc) juga boleh.
tentang kegagalan membuka toko cupcake, tidak masalah 🙂
apapun yang kamu kerjakan dan yang akan kamu jual di toko, saya pikir pasti akan laku.
terus semangat elsie !
big hug from Indonesia.
puri
I feel the same about wanting my blog to stay on the positive side of life. The focus being on all the little joys & creative inspirations. Sometimes I want to divulge more personal, less-happy-happy-joy-joy moments, but I never end up doing so. And I didn’t find this post to be a downer at all. This was just a slice of “real” life for us to peek at. So, thanks for doing so! It’s good to know you’re both Supergirl and Elsie (’cause you can be both)! 🙂
Dearest Elsie, It’s very refreshing to hear that the women that I admire do indeed have struggles just like me… We love every side of you. Thank you for sharing.
xo,
Chels
p.s. because of your inspiration, and after months of preparation, I just opened my Etsy shop, RedDirtRevival. Thanks for the encouragement and doses of reality.
my grandma says i owe her a dollar a tattoo for each day for the rest of my life.
she’s a special lady, that one.
(kinda like you!)
I once saw a workshop of a play about how pictures never tell the whole story and sometimes they can tell a completely different story. Sometimes blogs can do that too. I appreciate you sharing your more vulnerable side. I got some diappointing news last evening so this kinda made me feel better. Even though it seems obvious that everyone has good and bad things going on in their lives sometimes you need the reminder. I love your blog and I find it to be pretty inspiring so keep doing what you’re doing 🙂
p.s. I love the picture of you.
I was thrilled to read this – not thrilled about your problems of course but it was like being let in on secrets or something 🙂 Little snippets of what’s on your mind is perfect. You don’t have to share everything like “OMG Jeremy left soap scum around the sink this morning” (LOL) but little thoughts on your creative processes and struggles would go down a treat! Keep being you anyway, you’re awesome and I can’t wait to see if you’re big project is anything near what I’m guessing! xx
(and sell your cupcakes anyway! I want that dream to come true for you! — just make them different in some special way)
Because your shop’s arty, how about a section where people can decorate their own cupcake or cookie? Have different coloured icings and frostings and those load of sweeties and sprinkles. Don’t worry hun, you’ll think of something. As amazing as cupcakes are, they’re not particularly original atm so take this opportunity to think of something brand new that’s gonna blow people away 🙂
Refreshing and honest. Thank you.
awe you are an inspiration maam! even when you dont know it! im 26 yer s old,work at a tattoo shop,and am COVERED in tattoos yet my poor family only knows abut a few of them….i understand not wanting to disappoint them…but unbearing “secrets” may help me feel better…you did it..I just may follow suit!!
xoxo
adrienne K
I wish I wasn’t compelled to make yet another email for you to have to read – but that was so sweet that you shared. I’ve started two ballet schools from scratch and then sold and moved – heartbreaking & yet exciting too! There are always new exciting adventures awaiting….. kisses & hugs!!
I think it really is important not to make yourself to vulnerable online – you never ever know who will read it and what they will make of it. Although you do have a wonderful community and also wonderful, empathic readers (myself included ;-)), this does not mean that only nice people stumble upon your website. Insofar it is very important to protect yourself.
I got an email from a person I don’t know yet some days ago. We plan to do a theatre project together and I showed her my blog. She thinks it is absolutely wonderful and that I am an incredibly creative and talented and wonderful person. The thing is that I only show things that I succeed in or that I admire in my blog – what she does not see are all those moments when I just want to sleep and all those “somehows” in my life: Life is always somehow. You always manage to get by somehow – but usually less successful and easy etc. than you would have wished. I know about so many of my faults and think they are too many and to strong, whereas I take my strengths etc. for granted.
What I wanted to say with this is: Our lives always look much better and perfect from the outside. From the inside you know about all the struggles involved.
Thanks for showing us your weaker side – and you ARE an amazing person.
thank you for sharing this with us…
it’s beautiful to see the messy side of an artist…
Was a coincidence to read this posting, cause as I logged in to see what you are up to, I was thinking that it is strange that here I am in Glasgow noseying at someone else’s life at the other side of the world, and was wondering if that is rather unhealthy…! I think it is always easy to look at other people and think they have a perfect life, but it’s never the case. that said, a positive attitude and gratitude surely brings good things… x
Even your ‘human side’ shows a sweet, thoughtful, compassionate girl, NOT a complainer or someone negative. You are super awesome, Elsie–
i know its gotta be extremely difficult to put yourself out there, especially when you have so many readers. but i would just like to say thanks for sharing all of this. sometimes its nice being reminded that such creative and awesome ladies like yourself are just like everyone else and therefore have problemsand fears like everyone else. i think its awesome too that you try to stay so positive on your blog. 🙂
kudos for being so open elsie!
You can make a craft “room” outta any space!!! Mine is a teeny tiny dormer in my bedroom!!! No joke about teeny tiny… pretty much only the table and I fit!!! You can see it here.
http://makemesmilemakemehappy.blogspot.com/2010/04/hello-there.html
It’s of course always evolving so it looks much different now then it did for these pictures! Have fun and good luck!!!! 🙂
It’s so sweet of you to share your fears/worries with us. I always knew you were human anyway, haha, but that was nice.
Super tight hug!
http://mikisscrapbook.blogspot.com/
thank you for sharing. i think that your human side is quite lovely! really, i do!
thanks for sharing elsie.
i love your blog, ALWAYS! =)
and i love reading about your life, and i love your positive attitude.
you are the best!
I think you should have a retro candy bar in your shop – that would be so perfect. Don’t worry about keeping some of your life to yourself – it’s yours and you get to choose what to share! Hugs
this was pretty awesome of you. and i like that even though these not-so-great things are happening, you still seem positive. it really shows that that’s who you really are, and your typical upbeat positivity isn’t just who you project yourself to be on your blog. ya know?
p.s. i’m totally the same way about my grandma, too.
p.p.s. too bad we’re not neighbors, because we would totally be pals. although i’m sure every other girl reading your blog thinks the exact same thing 😉
Positive is so good, though.
It is so rare.
I SO get the grandma thing.
Aren’t they great?
Hi Elsie, I understand your point of view. A year I closed my local store and walk to work on a new business.
Takes very long time, but is the most rewarding to see everything you dreamed take shape.
I wish good luck and continue to be the positive person in the world is full negativity.
Optimism and cute things make the world more pleasant.
Success with love Sabrina
thank you for this post! your grace is SO inspiring to me. and i feel that optimism is such an important trait to have. i feel very lucky to have found your blog and to get to peak into your creativity on a daily basis. it keeps me going!!
I know how tough things can be sometimes. those things that you keep bottled down and don’t know what to do with. and you keep them down for so long that you think ‘surely if i keep this up for any longer i shall make myself sick’ so, yeah, sometimes i think that your life is totally dandy but then i remember all the wonderfull things you do and i see that some things are going to go wrong. i love how you keep going through possibly hard times and it makes me want to carry on too. thanks elsie
*sorry i felt a bit poetic today 🙂
Just wanted to said, that is good to keep your energy in your proyects, make it secret make that still are just for you, when it cames in reality you are the only one that really know all the time that was inside you! If you talked about you start to live about your proyect before even know if you will make it.
About close your shop, im so sad for you, because it was really cute, lovely and it looks all the love that was there.But you know what, something better will came, im sure of that. When something close that you really love be sure that is for a good reason, you need some times for yourself, to start again, to put in balance what you really want of this. We live in circles, sometimes we are so up and sometimes we are just looking the light again but what is for sure is great SHARED, because sharing you realiced that you are not the only one feeling all this. Sharing is the key to the happyness, you are doing well!!!
I also thought you must be the happiest and luckiest girl in the world. You have a dream job – even though it involves a lot of hard work, it’s still a dream job. Others also work hard but hate what they do every single day.
Then it seems like you found Mister Right – Jeremy seems to be the most supportive man one can wish for. But you really deserve it! Knowing that you had a divorce I thought that you must have had hard times in your life too. And even though your layouts in your fist book are so optimistic and bright it has gone wrong at some point. Therefore I really think you deserve a fantastic boyfriend like Jeremy.
To be honest I did not understand why you closed your RVA store all of a sudden after such a short time. It really came as a surprise. Finding out that you can’t reopen it as the store you’ve imagined must be really hard. But I am sure whatever way you’ll go, it will be right and I am grateful that you are always so positive, because reading your blog always cheers me up
Thanks Elsie!
hi, i am from Colombia and i always read your blog, is the thing i do after to start with my work, i think you are like my little inspiration in the day, i love all that you do, i am graphic designer, and when i saw your things inspire me to continue all days, is weird i know haha maybe you dont where is my country, but for fist time i can see you human side and is so similar the things that i feel, well good luck and i wish one day see your store. and get one of your stuf.
Dear Elsie,
Four years ago, I opened up a coffeshop, Chatterly’s, a dream of mine for many years. It was so beautiful. After a year, I realized I was not going to make it financially or emotionally, so I closed the doors. I cried for weeks on end. So much so that my husband bought me a new car. I felt such a failure!!
I also had a tatoo done and said to the artist that my mother will turn in her grave if she had to see this…………well we will have to wait and see about that.
You ar a gorgeous, strong woman!!
Good luck with the new Venture.♥
oh man, i bet your cupcake shop would have been way cute. I say go for it! so…..dang, that sounds like it would have been tons o fun! bummer!
I am excited for your new shop. i am hoping some day to come to springfield, just to see your shop. I am trying to talk my mom into doing an art show there, if you have them, JUST so I can come check out your shop. I think you are cute as a button. 🙂
I love seeing the more personal side of the bloggers I admire, and you are definetly at the top of that list. Thank you for sharing!
I’m so glad you shared a little of your “human side.” I love that you’re always positive, but it’s nice to see that you really are a person with feelings, too. I think it makes me love you and your blog even more!
And I totally get the grandma/tattoo conundrum… The first time my grandma saw mine was my wedding day (I’d had it for 4 years at that point)… I was terrified she’d be disappointed, but she never said anything either. Grandmas can surprise you sometimes, I guess.
It’s so so great to see your
“human” side! And it’s nice to know that even the most fabulous of ladies have to deal with things like showing their grandma all their tattoos. You’re precious.
great post elsie! i have always known this side, b/c i personally know all of the hard work that goes into what you do, let alone still be a friend, girlfriend, daughter, etc. each and everyone of us has our struggles. i try also to remain positive on my blog, but i have found that the moments i let my guard down and talk about things, like losing my mother, is when i have formed some of the most real connections with my readers. i have had so many people tell me how touched they were from reading those posts, that i actually feel like i have helped others by being real. it is refreshing for others to see no matter how great and wonderful we seem through our art, that we are just human too, and they can relate to us even more. but i also do understand that somethings need to be kept private, there is a line you must draw. but hooray for being open!!!
you know i never thought about it, but i did think of your life as PERFECT. thanks for sharing.
I am such a big fan of your blog for its simple + true to you inspiration. But thank you for your honesty, as a woman who looks to other woman for motivation in being creative, this post was just as inspiring as the rest!
Hugs! Thanks for having such a great blog. I really enjoyed this post, and can relate to finding a balance with blogging. I feel like I’m always trying to figure out the right recipe of being an open, interesting person that people can relate to, while being a naturally upbeat, positive person. I think you’re doing a good job 🙂 Hugs again! P.S. That pic of you is really adorable!!
It’s great that you have a friend that can be so honest with you. I felt the same way abt your blogs. I didn’t know if a person could always be so happy, but your cherriness is a breath if fresh air.
I love that you posted this! I have a small handmade boutique in my city & totally understand the passion and hard work! xoxo!
i think it’s very nice of you to share more of this side of your life, but i’ll never understand why people are so concerned with others and comparing themselves to others. glimpses like this won’t help that woman be okay with herself, until she grapples with the bigger concept of acceptance for herself. just an odd phenomenon to me…
know what you mean about small businesses! my husband + i will celebrate 2 years of our retail store next month. sometimes it feels like it’ll never all come together, never pay off – lots of work!!!
Your blog is definitely a source of visual inspiration to me & part of your brand so I understand why you want to keep some parts of life more private. I am sure there are lots of young artists who are thrilled you were so candid today. Those of us that are not so young understand that everyone has tough days (weeks, months . . . ) it will all fall into place & your journey will make sense. Good luck with the new business! That is certainly something to be very proud of!
Interesting that you posted this because I’ve been thinking about the same thing. Over the weekend I did a presentation on blogging & during my Q&A round, someone asked me if I had a rule for myself to only share positive things on my blog because she never reads anything about me having bad days, etc. Like you, I don’t claim to be perfect at all and just like to keep things positive and upbeat on my blog. However, it’s important for me to feel like my readers connect with me so maybe I will be doing a similar post 🙂
Thanks for sharing. As always, a lovely inspiration.
AW! Too bad about the cupcakes! That would be pretty cool, but I’m sure you’re store is gonna be awesome anyway! I know what you mean about not wanting to disappoint your grandmother, I’m the same way. She’s Catholic and my wedding (still setting the date) isn’t going to be entirely religious….so that makes me nervous. It is nice to see this side of you though, it does seem sometimes like EVERYTHING is in check for you!! It makes me wonder how you do ALL the you do and still keep sane!! You’re amazing. That’s how. 🙂
♥kayla
http://www.themindwandering.blogspot.com
Hugs!
xo
I never thought or noticed until just now that, it’s true, you do come across as extremely positive and I just associate this blog as a place with beautiful things and ideas and not negativity. That is AMAZING and I would say don’t ever lose that quality, but I don’t think that ever needs to be said. With some people it’s just a given.
Well done, thanks for really sharing. I’ve struggled with this same issue on my blog. I have often written a too personal post only to delete it because it seemed to fall into the “too much information” catagory. Where is the balance? I’m not sure, but I know I appreciate your effort to find your balance. Thanks for sharing.
thank you so much for sharing this side of yourself. I just started blogging and I wanted to be like you, always being positive but it’s so darn hard and in the end I caved in and talked about the real me. I don’t regret it one bit n I have gained a few good friends through being honest about myself. SO I guess sometimes giving a glimpse of your not so positive self is a good thing?
oh and when I feel down and uninspired I always read your blog and it never fails to lift my spirits up even if it’s only for a short while. Just thought I’d tell you that 🙂 xoSal
how brave of you, elsie! i understand that balance between staying positive and staying honest, without giving your “pearls to pigs” so to speak. your vulnerability today was quite admirable though. someday, come to portland. <3
It was really nice seeing a more human side. I have learned that when people are consistently strong but occasionally show they are human I feel I can connect with them more.
That doesnt mean you need to be constantly negative, but showing you are a person and life challenges you as much as anyone else is a good thing.
Blogging is about connection right?
Thank you so much for this post. I love your visual inspiration and the wonderful events you share. That’s why I greatly appreciate posts like these–it makes the joys you share more reachable for us who have big struggles during these times than some enviously watching some perfect life through some glass gates.
It’s wonderful to see your human side. No one is ever perfect and sometimes I feels good, for both sides, to be shown some imperfections. :] You’re a beautiful woman.
Love and Turtledoves,
Jaco
I think adding a little personal touch will only make your readers love you more. You seem more human–more like a friend or someone they could relate to, than just a blog celebrity with lots of great creativity. It’s nice to see the other sides of Elsie. Good luck on your big business ‘secrets’. I am sure they will be wonderful.
Thank you for that, it helped.
I think a lot of us bloggers have the same thoughts…what to share, how much to share, whether it represents us authentically. I think the advice you’ve given before about being careful about venting online because it’ll live there and go on forever, is great advice.
Too bad about the cupcakes! Something else fun will materialize. Best of luck!
Oh, it’s so rad to hear more about your life & secret things…I hope it becomes a regular thing! The thing i love most about blogs i the people behind them. 🙂
Thank you for posting this 🙂 I’ll admit, sometimes when reading your blog it does seem like you lead a charmed life! It was really brave of you to open up, but equally it nice to know I can always come to this site for some positive energy and inspiration about being a more creative and fulfilled person. Good luck with all your projects 🙂
Elsie, your positivity makes me want to be a better person. WWED? What would Elsie do? j/k Everyone is human and has hurt, but you are an inspiration to all the creative people out there. Keep on rockin sista!
Thank you somuch for sharing! I know that sometimes its hard to find a balance in how much personal info to share, but the times that I have turned to my own blog to get everything out, I have been received with the most tremendous sense of support!
You seem like the sweetest person–the kind of person that everyone would want as a friend! I hope that everything works out with your new shop. I’m sure that all of your hours of hard work will pay off and it will be amazing!
Xoxoxoxoxoxoxo
Finding the balance between sharing the appropriate amount of personal information and too much personal information is tough. I love that you took a minute to share some of that because you do seem like a superwoman (not a bad thing!). I really look up to what you’ve accomplished and after I graduate I want to follow a similar career path. It’s nice to know that you aren’t prefect because it’s rather daunting to feel as though one must live up to perfection. You’re fantastic and inspirational. Thank you so much
elsie, I know you get a lot of comments and you can’t respond to everyone, but I have to thank you very much for sharing this. I know a lot of people have commented the same things but I did think that your life seemed perfect and I understand how it is to want to keep things cheery and positive. but I have to admit I struggle to do that on my own blog because sometimes, life seems so bleak when things go wrong or disappointments just keeps knocking at your door.
I really appreciate that you share this (:
This post is so incredibly inspiring. I love that you admit that you are human (we all know that) but you still keep a positive attitude. Being around positive people help others to be positive.
P.S. letting grandma see your tattoos is brave, I know how tough grandma’s can be when it comes to pretty ink
I hope that this comes across in a *great* way, but this is, I think, my favorite post of yours! It’s not that i don’t LOVE your cute, creative stuff, because of course we all do- that’s why we keep coming back! But sometimes words can do so much for a person. Words can breathe life and breed a familiarity. Your cute, creative stuff really is great, but knowing who’s behind all of that is even greater! Thanks, Elsie! 😉
i love that you share who you are and what you’re about with no apologies. This day and age, with this financial market we leave in, everyone is feeling the stress now and again. It’s nice that your blogs focus is positive, but you’re human. and we all have blah days.
xo
wonderful post.
i know never once thought you were perfect though :]
i’m a small business owner myself (my husband and i own a little restaurant) and know first hand how overwhelming it all can be. good for you for staying as positive and doing what’s right for YOU.<3
Thank you so much for opening your heart to us blog readers. I find it inspiring and I know I can send out the support your need to the universe. It is an honor.
Elsie, you are SO great.
Thanks for this, and thanks for all the inspiration.
Glad to know you-even if it’s one sided and via internet. 🙂 *hugs*
I appreciate your wanting to show your “human side”, I actually like that this blog is a creative, positive, happy place to visit. I don’t need to worry about what bad thing is happening in your life right now or anything, I just know I can visit here and it’ll always be a good experience.
im so sorry to hear that.. i agree with you about people sharing too much on blogs but i thought you were always very business orientated and found it very hard to connect with you. I love your classes and ive just signed up for summercamp and im very excited. I wish you all the luck and im so sorry the store closed down!!
healthy honesty is always a good thing …IMHO. :))
xo.
Beuatiful post, Elsie! Everyone has a human side, and it’s weird to think that some people may think that your life is perfect. I see your blog as an escape. You know, that cute, beautiful place you an go to leave the everyday problems on the side for a bit? I love that you share inspiring things, because this inspires me. I follow many blogs that are very personal — people sharing struggles kind of personal — and although I like reading them, I like the idea of having a blog in which you can go back to smelling the flowers and watching rainbows.
It’s just like movies for me: I want to see documentaries about what’s going on over Iraq, Africa, etc. It’s important, it makes you think, it makes you ponder over the world and question governments and it is a very healthy thing to do. But sometimes all I need to do is to watch a popcorn movie, ya know? Something that will make me happy. An your blog make me happy! So carry on, sister! xoxo
I love this post. I really do. I, too, have been feeling lately like my blog doesn’t show who I really am. I’m going to change it soon. I’m a super shy & introverted person but I’m going to try to tell more about myself on my blog, and this post of yours makes me even more eager to do that. To show more who I am, not only the things I create or pretty photos I find online (although they do show many parts of me, but still – I want to *talk* more about *myself*).
I’m really happy about knowing you a bit better now. I hope everything in your life that is not completely ‘ok’ will become completely ‘ok’ quickly! 🙂
Thank you for everything, Elsie. For all the inspiration and all the smiles you put on my face through your blog and art. Thank you.
🙂
thanks for sharing miss cake…and just fyi, i adore that your blog is a positive space in general. i think too many blogs out there are negative messes…but yours is…well, beautiful with touches of reality!
love you!
Ah Elsie, you are so beautiful and sweet and a wonderful soul. You GIVE so much of yourself to the world already, I hope you realize that. Blogs are strange creatures, and this world we are living in even stranger. Everyone must find their own comfort levels and I give you props for doing it your own way.
Hi Elsie! Thank you so much for sharing a little personal info 🙂 I can see what your friend was talking about, and since it IS your personal blog I really love when people share a little something personal now and then. I wish you were my neighbor 🙂 You are such a big inspiration, and it is actually super nice to hear that even the most seemingly “perfect” people do have struggles and worries. I hope your shop gets there soon! xo!
Thank you for sharing this with us. I am also always looking on the bright side of life and try not to spend to much time going on about the bad. But sometimes its good to express yourself:-) I love your blog and you blog brightens up my day! I makes me happy and I would like to thank you for doing that.
This is such a nice and honest post. I’m trying to set up my own little online shop, you know, more than just for fun, and at moments I feel so overwhelmed your 10% seems heaven. It’s nice to know that even your inspiration can feel like you… Thank you so much for sharing!And thanks for inspiring me each day! 😉
This has been my favorite post of yours so far, and I’ve been following you for almost a year. It’s always nice to know that there’s a real person behind every smiley picture and every happy thought.
I hope you don’t take this the wrong way, but sometimes this blog can get annoyingly chipper and happy. And I say that in the best way possible. It’s like that person that’s so nice you almost can’t stand it, but you love them for it at the same time. You just want to walk up to them and say, “frown, don’t smile. cry, don’t laugh. be disappointed in something! let your emotions show. SHOW ME THAT YOU’RE HUMAN!” And this post did just that…perfectly.
I’m looking forward to seeing more of your human side along with your (lovingly said) annoyingly happy posts.
I didn’t read all these many comments, so I’m sorry if this is a repeat. =)
It is SO fun to hear more about your life and the things on your mind! Your blog is beautiful, inspiring and always fun, and I am glad that you don’t cloud that with “too much information”, but all of us faithful readers admire you so much that it’s real fun to learn more about you–what you’re worried about, thinking about, all that stuff. And I think you of all people can definetly feel free to share without it coming across as negative. =)
Infinite x’s and o’s,
Sarah
so brave! you make me proud, miss cake 🙂
xo. lauren
I’ve always loved your blog! I read it all the time because it really helps me get inspired to do projects that I want to accomplish! I’ve never thought that your life is perfect! I’ve always thought that you are just enjoying what you love to do and want to share the best of it. I hate when people go all negative and do the “whoa is me” “look how hard I have it”! You however show the happiness that comes out of hard work and determination! Great Job!
Hey old friend! I think it was very brave and sweet for you to share this! You are such an inspiration and such a beautiful soul, (always have been). I love how positive you are and that you share such beautiful, adorable, pretty things with all of us. It is a joy to look at your blog everyday and be inspired. Love you and miss you! *Christie*
that was lovely to read elsie. no one is perfect and it’s nice that you posted that for everyone to see. you seem so sweet and i wish we were neighbors :). our countries are though teeheehee. i can’t wait to hear about your 1 year project you’ve been working on and i wish you the best at your new location for your shop to bloom and flourish 😀
peace&love
Ashely from O’Canada
I have learned with time, that being positive is not everything in a blog. People want to feel like they know you and once that connection is there, they are more inclined to come back. Not to say ranting and raving on your blog is the best practice, but being a real person goes a long way.
I love your blog and can’t wait to read about your huge project. Bummer about the cupcake shop…maybe macarons might be a good option. I made some comopolitan ones that were really good:
http://bakedbyjoanna.blogspot.com/2010/05/cosmopolitan-french-macaron.html
I would be happy too share the recipe with you if you need something new and different. 🙂
Elsie,
Just listing all the projects going on you still seem super human to me!
I have to say that I think it’s awesome that even your “real life” post is still very positive. Real life may not be as pretty as your typical posts, but you for sure can paint it into a beautiful picture. I have just found another reason why I love stopping by your blog. To me that is true strength of humans – when the going gets tough, the tough keep smiling.
I wish I could give you a great big hug, but just know there is one coming from Kansas.
That picture is gorgeous by the way!
This was so nice to read thanks for sharing!Your blog is so inspiring and it makes me want to constantly create more and more. We all have things to deal with and its nice to see that even the cutest blogger does too. I wish we were neighbors, I would so make you my grandma’s famous cheesecake for you <3
I’m a words girl and loved getting to read this. I’m sorry about that cupcake shop opening in the same area you were planning yours. Dern! Your idea sounds really neat!
I know what you mean about the tattoos! I decided to show up with them showing at a big family party. It was like ripping off a band-aid… and no one had time to lecture me 🙂
ive been so stressed out lately, it makes me feel so much better to know that even someone like you that seems to have no problems.. is right there with me.
wow…. i love you all.
so so kind. <3 elsie
It’s alright to be human and no one is perfect…its nice to have a blog to read filled with love and inspirational ideas that can replace the negative just for a short time out of everyone’s day. Hang in there…You have your faithful blog readers behind you. Hugs hugs. I normally do not post comments. I am a silent reader. I should post comments once in a while. Here’s a hug to you from me. Keep up with whatever you do…
Hugs
Ericka
thanks for sharing! i have to admit, i was thinking that perhaps you were in fact superwoman!:) i really admire your positive energy and your blog is a great place to come for inspiration on a gray day, but it’s also nice to see this side of you too, for a change! i think it makes us relate and admire you even more!:)
You’re such an inspiration creatively, but also just as a person. It’s refreshing to be around upbeat positive people – that’s why I visit your blog almost daily. I appreciate your honesty and integrity. You have such amazing goals and aspirations – you will succeed!
Your shop will be so great when you get everything sorted out. I think a teashop within is a fabulous idea. Vintage/antique/fabulous mismatched china – complete with hot tea or coffee and petit fours, danishes, & other scrumptious cakey goodness! It would be just like a fairy tale.
I don’t think there’s anything wrong with your positive blogging style. I know that if I’m in an artistic rut or if I am just having an all-around crappy day, I can ready your blog & feel inspired & smile again. It’s nice. I have no regrets for “following” you for so long. And as for the cupcakes….I know it can be crushing when someone else takes your idea & does it first. But this is your dream – so you should do it.
oh Elsie… I’m so sad for you about the cupcake shop. I know that’s been something you’ve really been wanting to do, and you’d be so good at it! I know whatever is in your store will be amazing, but I’m sorry for the disappointment! It’s very admirable of you not wanting to do that part now since there is another shop coming. I don’t think you’d have to worry about business.. but they might! =)
I can’t wait to hear about the really big secret you’ve been keeping! Thanks for being transparent here… We all love you and I find it even more endearing to get to know the side of you that gets down sometimes too! xoxo
I never knew…I must have missed something along the way….You closed your store?
Good Luck with all of your new projects and new beginnings along the way. Talk to you soon!!!!
I loved that you shared some of your challenges. It makes you even more of an inspiration!!
xo
I agree its hard to know if its OK to show a more personal side of yourself on a blog (I have also struggled with this issue). You have been a big inspiration for loads of people, as you can tell by all their comments. I think we also all knew that you were showing the peppy upbeat bright side of yourself. Even if we don’t have a blog most of us do that in our lives. Also its your blog and you should do what you want on it same thing goes for your store. Personal I would buy your cupcakes over the other guys because you have a personal style that is original and just plain cool.
It’s so good to see a little more of the picture that makes up who you are- and taking about the challenges now and then isn’t negative, it just makes us all root for you a little harder 🙂
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You rock! I too like to stay more positive on my blog, but it is nice to sometimes be real, but it also makes you feel really vulnerable.
When everyone reads your life you are entitled to some privacy – was really nice though to read a bit more about you!!
I so wish I lived near to your new shop!!
Elsie, your blog is super inspiring. And yes, it’s nice to always come here for a ray of sunshine. But I also found this post to be super inspiring. It makes me think that there’s someone else out there like me too. Struggling to be an independent business owner. Separating work from life. Keeping things secret (like tattoos from grandparents! Luckily I was wearing an ascot blouse last time I bumped into Gramps at the super market. But I’m super nervous for the day he sees them.)
Even as to where I will be living… so many things to juggle. So it’s sort of nice to be able to virtually hold each other’s hands. 😉 xo Mandi
i absolutely loved this post… it was so honest and sincere. thank you for sharing your heart with us. <3
This really resonated with me. Thank you for allowing a glimpse.
Elsie, I agree with you on the not sharing ‘too much’ information in a blog… everyone has their hard days and I hope you are still able to feel your blog readers’ love and support even when you don’t share the details of your personal struggles! We know you are a person just like each of us, and I am glad that you have other outlets (family and close friends) where you can share such details and thus retain aspects of privacy in the online world.
Your artwork inspires me and the things you have accomplished (opening a store in order to do what you love despite the downturn of the nation’s economy, showing your grandma your tattoos, etc) are nothing short of true courage 🙂
Thanks doll.
This couldn’t have come at a better time for me. It makes me feel so much better about the tears I have cried over my Indie business to know that you have probably cried them too.
Thanks for sharing, seriously.
<3
Thank you for opening up & for caring enough about all of us that read your blog to put yourself out there & be vulnerable. I agree that it’s just not your blog’s forum to do such a thing and that’s usually a big reason why I like to visit it (besides the major eye candy & inspiration!) I usually check your blog right before bed because I always know your post will be postive, fun, & cheery—So by all means don’t feel bad that you’re not showing the everyday ups & downs all the time. You are a bright spot in my day & appreciate your posts! But thanks & I totally get it.
thanks for this post, elsie…especially the part about your grandma 🙂 I am the same way, I HATE the thought of disappointing my family in anyway just because I love them.
honestly lovely lady, I am so glad you posted this because I have wondered at times if your life was always ALWAYS so perfect.
I’m also so glad that your a positive person because I can relate to that. I totally see the glass half full rather than half empty.
I also appreciate that you don’t get all dramafied like some blogs I have come across. Some people get a little bit too personal for my taste.
I love that your blog is focused on visual inspiration, but I think everyonce in a while it would be nice to read something a little bit more personal…not too personal.
I can’t wait to here what your porject is!!
YOU’RE GREAT DEAR!!
Awww, Elsie! Thanks for sharing something more intimate. It makes me love you even more 🙂 I understand the tattoo thing. My sister is heavily tattooed, and I’m moderately tattooed. Our family HATED them for so long, but have since gotten used to them. Maybe your grandmother will, too. I know I was concerned about my grandad seeing mine (I’m 33 and I still worry about this!!), and I still do get nervous about what he’ll say. Oy…
Anyhow, I think you’re pretty amazing, and I admire you, and I have a feeling your new shop will be the coolest thing goin up there. Even without cupcakes. Because, contrary to popular belief, cupcakes don’t make EVERYTHING better… 😉 xoxoxo girl.
It’s nice to see the “human side” of you. There are quite a few bloggers out there who seem to live such a perfect life where nothing ever bad happens to them. It’s nice to see everything in a positive light but it’s nice to see that everyone is just like me.
Elsie, thank you for sharing. i love stopping by your blog for my daily dose of “visual inspiration.” i am also one of those people who think you have a perfect life with a perfect job. so i really appreciate this post because it made me feel like you related to me.
our human side only adds depth and texture to our art. please don’t ever be ashamed to show your human side. i think if everyone in the world showed their human side, and we encouraged and accepted each other for it, we would all “get” each other so much more! and this world would be a more beautiful place for it. so thank you, truly.
i really love that you shared this.
Elsie, I love your positive attitude!! I obviously know that your life isn’t as perfect as it seems through your blog, I would be silly to think that, your positivity is remarkable! 🙂 Also, how could your grandma not love your tattoos? They’re adorable! 🙂
Elsie thank you for that!! It was so nice to know that the happiest person in the world (well to me you are anyway) has those things in her head as well!!
xx
Hi Elsie, thanks for sharing, being true and positive and inspiring us!! Keep up the good work! xo
i loved this :]]
thanks for sharing yourself with us :]]]
i think it’s hard to get the balance when blogging between sharing too much and not at all. i know a lot of my real life friends read my blog and I know I talk about a lot of people ( read boys) without being very subtle. But I guess I’m quite an open person and I don’t feel I’d be true to myself without that on my blog. But at the same time I want people to respect my blog so when I want a proper moan or I’m feeling down I try to focus it in on the issue so it isn’t just me having a sulk!!
Charlotte xxx
After I left a comment to this blog last night, I was really bummed out for you that you weren’t going to open up your new store with the cupcake shop. I know how much you LOVE cupcakes. So I was thinking, have you ever considered petit fours, they can be super adorable too, also muffins would be good
okay just thought I would throw a few ideas youre way.
loveLOVE
Thanks for sharing. <3
I’m so glad you posted this. Sometimes I wish we did know what you do more on a day-to-day basis. You do so much, and have so much going on all the time. It baffles me how you can get so much accomplished and still have friends/ be in great shape! What I admire most about you is that you’re a doer, not a talker. If you have a dream you make it come true. I’m trying to be more like that. It would be nice to know a bit more of what it takes!
I think the points you’ve made here are a big catch 22 in the blogging community. You don’t want to put too much of yourself out there, but you want to appear as a “real” person, too. Sure, it’s easy for people to read a blog and think that someone’s life is perfect, but in reality, that’s just never going to be the case. Staying positive, as you’ve said, is really the best way to ALWAYS be and I’ve always looked at your blog as an outlet for you to express that side of yourself. I try to do the same. 🙂
Hey, I commented a few days ago but I don’t think it worked. You are so inspiring and so talented! I’m so glad you share your creative side with all of us! Miss you, Christie
I like your human side! I still think you’re pretty amazing and wonderful, but it’s nice to hear that it’s not all quite as easy as you make it look! 😉
Good luck with everything, and thanks for inspiring us all!
I think your blog is perfect!!! Don’t let ONE comment get you down — think about all the other great ones! Some people out there share waaaay too much personal info! Looking at your blog is a happy spot in my day!
Hey Elsie,
I read your post and was impressed with the fact that you have a clear vision of what you want this blog to be, “visual inspiration.” You’re doing what you set out to do.
Btw I was looking forward to seeing the shop when I recorded some songs with Jeremy a couple of weeks ago but it was already being taken down:( I’ll make sure to stop by and see the new place and introduce myself.
you sound awesome, I can’t wait to see your shop.
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(name some pretty, cute, nice,attractive to people, and the person that makes me the logo design I will get some little picture, like any bird or cupcake, we also do cakes, cupcakes, Cheesecake, cookies, etc.)
I have many things to tell you, better pass me your e-mail, kisses!
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sorry
I’m like you, Elsie. I like to dwell on the sunny side of the street with my life.
This is your blog, so you share what you want to. Happy Elsie..Introspective Elsie..it’s all good to me.
I like to keep project secret too..until I feel comfortable to share them.
*hugs*
Life’s problems and stuffs like that keeps life a bit interesting and also can bring out the best in us.
Just follow your heart, you got a sweet good one.
Take care.
I love your human side! Keep it up, It’s good to know that you are normal…but I’m still jealous of your life!
Good luck in the future.
Thanks for sharing that human side, but I really like you, just being you, a very nice creative girl with a very good and funny perspective of real life. Everybody knows that life sucks sometimes, and what makes me happy is checking your blog everyday looking for good vibrations of you and your friends! Just be yourself! Love from Brazil!! Patty Denny
“From the outside looking in, you can’t understand it. From the inside looking out, you can’t explain it.”
i love your blog and things you do! keep on keeping one 🙂
Thank you for this post Elsie 🙂
I believe that a perfect happiness is not possible, just like a complete sadness. I know you are such a positive soul, you spread colors around you and I’ll never forget the class you teached us in Italy: just being in the same room with you made me feel “relaxed and happy”
That’s really nice, elsie. I think it’s really easy for us all to see each other differently than we REALLY are. We see only the bits we share – and of course we share the good stuff! That’s the point, right?! So then as we look at each other we never see the struggles or the process behind the projects, we only see amazing finished products. And it can seem almost like magic. HOW does she DO that? I think that there’s a difference between sharing negative things to show you’re “human” and just being relatable. You don’t share negative things (complaining, etc.) but being relatable to your readers shows you’re human, and of course, you are. 🙂 Thanks for sharing yourself with us – and your amazing creativity!
Your human side is just as inspiring as your pretty photos, craft ideas, and creative ideas! Thanks for this. 🙂
Thank you for this post. Your life seems so perfect that it’s a bit ressuring to heard that it’s not in the facts. You know, it’s like i dream to have this kind of life but seems impossible so i think it’s very positive that you let appears sometimes the negative things of live.
I don’t know if i well express my thougts cause my english is clearly unperfect.
Maybe sometimes it seems too perfect, but in a way, it make me dream and that is pretty much great right!? Everything is a question of balance.
Anyway, thank you for this blog, you are such a source of inspiration in art and live.
Bisous de France, Marion.
that was really sweet, thank you
I don’t comment often but I love your positivity and I try really hard not to write anything negative as well, it really helps me to stay positive.
good luck with your new shop, you’ve worked so hard that I doubt it could be anything but amazing!
People share too much in an online environment sometimes. It’s not necessary. We love your blog just as it is. There’s no need to share personal things here, because anyone with a beating heart knows that only God is perfect.
Hi!!
well, i would like to share this blog that i love it!!!
And maybe you can see some ideas for your new shop!!!
P.S I love pop corns!!!! xD
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I havent been on your blog mainly as your life does just seem to bee to perfect to be true – but I do love your upbeat posts and the visual treats you post….funny, how you think you can know someones life by just reading a blog,of course you dont but humans have a habit of jumping to conclusions.
Hope the shop turns out the way you hope x
Thank you so much for sharing this! There is something almost comforting to hear that other people have struggles too. I wish you the best of luck on all your projects.
Enjoyed reading this. Thank you.
I LoVe what you said in your post!! U R such an inspiration to me!! I’m a rookie at mixed media art, and I’m trying to learn as much as I can. You’ve got some really awesome artsy stuff on your blog, and I look forward to reading more posts!! By the way, weren’t you featured in a book about Spiritual Journaling? I haev that book, but I haven’t looked at in in a little while, and I thought that that’s where I knew your name from. That book and the Somerset mags . . .
Love ya!
Steph
Hi Elsie!
I recently discovered your blog and I love it. I’m actually new to the whole blogging thing in general…it’s 2010…I feel like I should’ve been hip to this scene long ago, but oh well. I especially enjoyed this post because I’m kind of stuck on how I want to tackle my blog. I’m a jewelry & mixed media artist…currently building up my line and establishing an art blog and Etsy store. I’ve gone back & forth on how personal I want to be on my blog. I do want it to mainly be a showcase for my work and be a springboard for creativity and an “artlove” forum of sorts, but I also want to be able to share myself in other ways too. I feel that if your readers get comfortable with you and feel like they know you, that maybe it could increase interest & sales…I know that I’d rather buy from a “friend” than a total stranger. BUT…at the same time…how much personal life is too personal?
Thank you for sharing your talents and a little bit of your “human side”.
~ Jenna
Dearest Elsie:
I loved this. I have been reading your blog for a year now, and this is the first time I was drawn to comment and share with you how this blog filled me with hope, inspiration, and a sense of the stick-to-it-iveness that is needed for all creatives to rock it out in the world.
Cheers!